“HE DESERVES IT” Erica Mena CLOWNS Sarfaree Mom’s 𝐃𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐡 | HO’

Safaree’s mom just passed… and instead of staying quiet, she posts happy videos with her new man & their daughter.

LOS ANGELES — Just when you thought the Erica Mena and Safaree Samuels saga couldn’t get any darker, Erica has allegedly crossed a line that even reality TV fans didn’t see coming. She’s now being accused of mocking Safaree after his mother’s death. And her response? Basically, he had it coming.

For years, the *Love & Hip Hop* exes have gone back and forth, revealing the absolute worst in each other for millions to watch. But this time, Safaree has been receiving an outpouring of sympathy after losing his mom. Erica, on the other hand, is fresh out of condolences.

“Doesn’t feel good,” Erica once told him during one of their blowups. “What doesn’t feel good? You just look so hurt. I am. I let so much slide. I gave you a chance again and again and again and again and again. That’s how much I loved you.”

But love turned into a battlefield years ago. Safaree allegedly plotted on Erica from the moment he saw her on *Scared Famous* back in 2017. Sources say he told someone beside him that he *had* to have her – not as his wife, but as the mother of his children. She wasn’t feeling him. He pursued anyway. By 2019, they were married, and Erica was pregnant with their first child.

Then the cracks became canyons.

Erica has claimed that Safaree abandoned her while she was pregnant, taunted her for gaining weight, and – after she filed for divorce – took it as a “get out of jail free card.” She was pregnant again, stuck at home, while he allegedly ran around Jamaica with other women. Their daughter was in the NICU. Erica was alone.

“When I filed for divorce, I was trying to send the SOS like you’re about to lose your whole family,” she said. “I was hoping it triggered what needed to be triggered to save us. He took it as a get out of jail free card and started screwing everybody he could possibly think of and made it public while I was pregnant.”

Safaree, for his part, later admitted that their relationship was one of the biggest mistakes he’d ever made. That admission cut Erica to the bone. She threw out their wedding photos. She even apologized to Nicki Minaj – Safaree’s famous ex – for not believing Nicki’s warnings about him.

“Us women tend to ignore when a man sits there and love bombs you about his ex and all the things she did to him,” Erica said. “It’s funny how life comes full circle because the same thing he did to her, he’s doing to me years later.”

The breaking point for many fans came recently. Safaree’s mother passed away. Despite his chaotic online behavior, he shared a genuine bond with her. Fans rallied around him. But instead of staying quiet, Erica posted a video of their daughter happily playing with her new man, Antonio. The timing, critics said, was cruel.

“Wait, didn’t I see Safaree’s mom pass?” one commenter wrote. “This seems like wrong timing. That man just lost his mother. If he snaps, I won’t say a thing.”

Erica fired back immediately. “FYI, most of you are so loud and so wrong. If you only knew,” she wrote. “Crazy how me loving my life and appreciating mine bothers you all. Sympathy and condolences have been given.”

Then she dropped her own receipt. “That man got engaged and had a full-on beat proposal set up by him 5 days after my kid’s grandmother passed,” Erica claimed. “It’s safe to say that individual was doing okay and pushing through just fine.”

From Erica’s perspective, she owes Safaree nothing. They haven’t been together for years. He’s publicly embarrassed her, called their marriage a mistake, and pined for Nicki Minaj while Erica raised their two children mostly alone. “He doesn’t even talk or care about his seeds this much online or in real life,” she said.

But critics are quick to point out that both sides are toxic. Their arguments have played out in front of their children. In one infamous incident, Erica scaled Safaree’s gate – barely dressed – and the internet couldn’t decide whether she was a victim of provocation or just as unhinged.

Erica’s defense? He provokes. He throws stones and hides his hands. “He has a way of throwing stones and hiding his hands,” she said. “They play mind games. They disrespect you. They violate you. They provoke you, cause you to rage – and then when you finally react, hide hands. They’re innocent.”

Safaree has not directly responded to the mocking accusations. But his camp has previously pointed out that Erica’s own behavior – including smashing wedding photos and climbing gates – speaks for itself.

The internet remains split. “Nobody should be picking sides with Safaree and Erica,” one user wrote. “Both of them belong in hell for using their kids to fuel whatever narrative they want.” Another added: “Erica and Safaree shouldn’t have ever procreated together. They were busy trying to make Nicki jealous that they didn’t see they weren’t meant to be.”

As for Erica, she’s not apologizing. She’s been flaunting her new relationship with Antonio Bibs, posting videos of her children laughing and thriving. “Sympathy and condolences have been given,” she repeated. She didn’t stop living because Safaree is grieving. And in her mind, a man who got engaged five days after his own mother’s death doesn’t get to play the victim now.

But the question lingers: Was this a grieving mother’s daughter simply living her life – or a calculated clown meant to twist the knife? Either way, Erica Mena made sure everyone saw it. And she’s not taking it back.